The Still the Parent Series

Books for parents, grandparents,
fathers and in-laws navigating estrangement

Written by L.M. Harwood — from lived experience, grounded in psychology, grief research, and neuroscience.

A Guide for Parents with Estranged Adult Children
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A Guide for Parents with Estranged Adult Children

The book that started the series. Six stages from shock to living fully again. (now also in Dutch)

The First 90 Days
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The First 90 Days

A crisis companion for the earliest weeks after estrangement.

Still the Parent: The Workbook
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Still the Parent: The Workbook

90 exercises to move through the 6 stages with clarity, compassion and hope.

The Hidden Grievers
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The Hidden Grievers

For fathers, grandparents and in-laws — the people on the edges who are rarely spoken to directly.

The Forgotten Grandparents
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The Forgotten Grandparents

For grandparents who have lost access to grandchildren. Includes legal rights across five countries.

Two books are free to download. Two are available on Amazon.

The six stages

A journey with a shape

1
Realization

The Day Everything Changed

Shock, disbelief, naming the experience, breaking the isolation.

2
Searching

The Grief That Has No Name

Ambiguous loss, physical grief, shame, the 3am rumination.

3
Truth

The Weight I Have Been Carrying

Honest self-examination — always paired with self-recognition.

4
Choices

The Patterns That Keep You Stuck

Naming patterns, understanding why they made sense, choosing differently.

5
Reclaiming

Building the Life That Is Waiting

Reclaiming identity, forward momentum, joy without guilt.

6
Peace

Done Waiting

Love without suspension. Life without waiting. Consolidating the journey.

“No judgment. No blame. Just honest, warm support for people who deserve more than they are getting.”
— The Still the Parent Series
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